This or That Questions for Couples

This or That is the quickest couples game: two options, one pick, instant reveal. Beach or mountains? Coffee or tea? Text or call? Each card takes seconds, but together the answers paint a surprisingly clear picture of how alike - or wonderfully different - you are.

On two phones, create a room and both pick at the same time; the game shows whether you matched and keeps score. On one phone, read the options aloud and answer on the count of three. It is great for waiting rooms, short breaks, first dates and long drives. Choose a topic like funny, Christmas or Valentine's for themed rounds. Free, clean and no app needed.

Start playing
  1. Each card shows two options.
  2. You both pick one without peeking.
  3. Reveal – matching picks score a point.
  1. 1

    Pineapple on pizza or No pineapple ever?

  2. 2

    Socks in bed or Bare feet?

  3. 3

    Text with GIFs or Text with emojis?

  4. 4

    Clown or Mime?

  5. 5

    Talk to animals or Speak every language?

  6. 6

    Dad jokes or Puns?

  7. 7

    Waddle like a penguin or Hop like a kangaroo?

  8. 8

    Fake laugh or Awkward silence?

  9. 9

    Toilet paper over or Toilet paper under?

  10. 10

    Cereal before milk or Milk before cereal?

  11. 11

    Ketchup on everything or Mustard on everything?

  12. 12

    Sing everything or Rhyme everything?

  13. 13

    Be a giant or Be tiny?

  14. 14

    Ghost or Vampire?

  15. 15

    Pirate or Ninja?

How do you play This or That as a couple?

Both of you pick one of two options without peeking, then reveal. Matching picks score a point.

What are good This or That questions for couples?

Try "Movie night or game night?", "Sunrise or sunset?" or "Plan everything or go with the flow?"

Is This or That good for a first date?

Yes. It is light and fast, which makes it a great icebreaker.

Can we play This or That over text?

Yes. Start a room and send your partner the link.