How to play

AskYourLove is a question game for two. You can pass one phone, or each answer on your own phone. A choice stays private until you have both made it, and a score is only a reason to keep talking.

1. Choose a game

Couple questions are prompts. You read one, talk, and move on. Nobody scores them. Who is most likely, How well do you know me, and This or that do keep score. Would you rather, Never have I ever, and the 36 questions are read together on one phone.

2. One phone, passed back and forth

Open a game and read the card. Say your answer, then hand the phone over. Tap Next card when you want a new one. This way of playing does not hide the screen, so look away if you want the other answer to stay a surprise.

3. Two phones, one private room

One person chooses Play on two phones, types a name, picks a game, and creates a room. A code of six letters and numbers appears. Send that code, or copy the link. The other person types the same code, adds a name, and joins. When both of you tap I'm ready, the first card begins.

Each of you answers on your own screen. The other choice stays hidden until you have both answered. Keep this browser tab open. A new visit starts a new room.

4. Where the points come from

A room plays ten cards.

Who is most likely: you each choose Me or My partner. If you name the same person, you both get one point.

This or that: you each tap one of the two answers. The same answer is one point for both of you.

How well do you know me: one of you answers about yourself, and the other guesses. Only a correct guess scores, and only the person who guessed gets the point. The next card swaps who is being asked about.

Couple questions: there is no score. Talk, then tap Next question. The person who created the room can move on alone. If the other person taps first, the card waits until you both do.

5. The percentage, and the talk after it

At the end of a scored room you see a percentage. It is the points you collected divided by the points those cards could have given. It describes this round only. It is not a test of the relationship. A card you missed is a reason to ask what the other person was thinking.

Keep it easy on each other

Let the other person choose before you look.
Answer for today, not for the choice that seems easier to match.
Leave a card that feels too sharp. Another one is coming.
A difference is a story, not a grade.
Start a fresh room when you want different cards. The old code does not stay.

Start playing Play on two phones