First Anniversary Questions for Couples

Your first year together goes by fast. These first anniversary questions help you look back on it - the first impressions, the first trip, the first silly argument - and test how well you remember the details. A few forward-looking questions round it off, so you finish talking about the year ahead.

Use the list as a dinner conversation, or press play to turn it into a quiz where one of you answers and the other guesses. Play on one phone, or start a room so each of you answers privately before the reveal. It takes about twenty minutes and makes a free, personal anniversary activity that pairs nicely with a card or a small gift.

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  1. 1

    What's the best date we went on this year?

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    How should we celebrate next year?

  3. 3

    What's our song this year?

  4. 4

    Who is most likely to plan the anniversary surprise?

  5. 5

    Who is most likely to remember what we wore on our first date?

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    Who is most likely to keep souvenirs from every date?

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    Would I rather celebrate our anniversary at home or away?

  8. 8

    Do I keep every card you've given me?

  9. 9

    Would I rather get a sentimental gift or a practical one?

  10. 10

    Do I think our first date went well?

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    What do I think was our best date ever?

  12. 12

    What gift would I love for our anniversary?

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    Where was our first date?

  14. 14

    Celebrate at home or Celebrate away?

  15. 15

    Sentimental gift or Practical gift?

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    Revisit first-date spot or Somewhere brand new?

  17. 17

    Photo album or Video montage?

  18. 18

    Dinner reservation or Picnic?

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    What's your favorite memory from our past year together?

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    How have we grown as a couple since our last anniversary?

  21. 21

    What's something new you learned about me this year?

  22. 22

    What was our biggest challenge this year, and how did we handle it?

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    What's one goal you want us to reach before our next anniversary?

  24. 24

    What do you love about me now that you didn't know at the start?

  25. 25

    What's a moment this year when you felt really lucky to have me?

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    What's one thing you want to thank me for?

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    If you could sum up our year in three words, what would they be?

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    What's a tradition we should start for our anniversaries?

  29. 29

    Who is most likely to write a heartfelt anniversary card?

  30. 30

    Would I rather look back at old photos or plan the future?

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    What's my favorite moment from this past year?

  32. 32

    When did I first know I loved you?

  33. 33

    What's a promise you'd like to renew today?

  34. 34

    What do you hope our next year together brings?

  35. 35

    What's your idea of a perfect romantic evening?

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    Where would our dream getaway be?

  37. 37

    What's your favorite way to hold hands?

  38. 38

    What's the most romantic movie you've ever seen?

  39. 39

    Sunset picnic or candlelit dinner?

  40. 40

    Who is most likely to write a love poem?

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    Who is most likely to plan a surprise date?

  42. 42

    Who is most likely to slow dance in the kitchen?

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    Who is most likely to propose somewhere unexpected?

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    Who do I think is the bigger romantic?

  45. 45

    Candlelit dinner or Picnic in the park?

  46. 46

    Love letter or Surprise gift?

  47. 47

    Slow dance or Stargazing?

  48. 48

    Breakfast in bed or Dinner date?

  49. 49

    Roses or Wildflowers?

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    Weekend getaway or Staycation?

What should we talk about on our first anniversary?

Favorite memories from the year, what surprised you about each other, what you learned and what you are excited about for year two.

Is a first anniversary quiz a good gift idea?

Yes. It is free, personal and fun. Pair it with dinner or a small gift to make an evening of it.

Can we do this if we are apart on our anniversary?

Yes. Start a room and share the link to play together on a video call.

Can we use these questions for later anniversaries?

Many of them work for any anniversary - just swap "this year" for the time you have been together.