How Well Do You Know Me? Questions for Married Couples

You have been married for a while, so you should ace this - right? These How Well Do You Know Me questions for married couples test the details that build up over years: favorite foods, habits, dreams you shared early on and how your partner would react in everyday situations.

One of you answers each question about yourself, the other guesses, and the game keeps score. Start a room so both of you answer on your own phones and the answers stay hidden until the reveal, or take turns on one phone. At the end you get a match score and a few highlights to talk about. Great for date nights and anniversaries.

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  1. 1

    Who usually wins our arguments, in my opinion?

  2. 2

    Would I rather host family for the holidays or travel to them?

  3. 3

    Do I think we should get another pet?

  4. 4

    Would I rather renovate our home or move?

  5. 5

    Which do I enjoy more: cooking together or eating out together?

  6. 6

    Would I rather have date night weekly or monthly?

  7. 7

    Would I rather plan our vacations or be surprised?

  8. 8

    Which chore do I hate more: laundry or dishes?

  9. 9

    Would I rather have a quiet anniversary or a big celebration?

  10. 10

    Do I think our wedding day went by too fast?

  11. 11

    Which do I remember better: our first date or our first kiss?

  12. 12

    What's my favorite family tradition?

  13. 13

    What's my favorite room in our house?

  14. 14

    Do I think we spend enough time together?

  15. 15

    Would I rather renew our vows or take a second honeymoon?

  16. 16

    What's my favorite thing about our home?

  17. 17

    What's one thing I'd love us to do more often?

  18. 18

    What's my favorite memory of our first year together?

  19. 19

    Am I more of a morning person or a night owl?

  20. 20

    Would I rather have coffee or tea?

  21. 21

    Beach holiday or mountain cabin — which would I pick?

  22. 22

    Do I prefer sweet or salty snacks?

  23. 23

    Would I rather stay in or go out on a Friday night?

  24. 24

    Am I a cat person or a dog person?

  25. 25

    Would I choose pizza or burgers for dinner?

  26. 26

    Do I like to plan trips or wing it?

  27. 27

    Would I rather read the book or watch the movie?

  28. 28

    Do I prefer summer or winter?

  29. 29

    Am I more introverted or extroverted?

  30. 30

    Would I rather get a text or a phone call?

  31. 31

    Do I sleep better with the window open or closed?

  32. 32

    Would I rather cook at home or order takeout?

  33. 33

    Do I prefer chocolate or vanilla?

  34. 34

    Would I rather watch a comedy or a thriller?

  35. 35

    Am I an early-to-the-airport or a last-minute person?

  36. 36

    Would I rather go to a concert or a museum?

  37. 37

    Do I prefer showers or baths?

  38. 38

    Would I rather have breakfast in bed or brunch out?

  39. 39

    Am I more likely to be early or late?

  40. 40

    Would I rather have a big party or a small dinner for my birthday?

  41. 41

    Do I prefer texting with emojis or without?

  42. 42

    Would I rather go camping or stay in a hotel?

  43. 43

    Am I more of a saver or a spender?

  44. 44

    Would I rather drive or be driven?

  45. 45

    Do I like spicy food or mild food?

  46. 46

    Would I rather work from home or at an office?

  47. 47

    Am I team sunrise or team sunset?

  48. 48

    Would I rather get flowers or chocolates?

  49. 49

    Do I prefer rainy days or sunny days?

  50. 50

    Would I rather be famous or rich?

How does the How Well Do You Know Me quiz work?

One partner answers about themselves, the other guesses. Matching answers score a point, and the game shows a match score at the end.

What is a good score for married couples?

Most married couples score between 60% and 85%. Anything above that is impressive.

Can we play this at a party?

Yes. Several couples can take turns and compare scores - every question is family-friendly.

What if we score lower than expected?

Take it as a fun reminder that people keep changing. Talk about the surprises - they are often the best part.