New Relationship Questions to Ask Him

Just started seeing someone? These new relationship questions to ask him help you get to know him naturally - his hobbies, friends, family, favorite food, how he likes to spend weekends and what he finds important in a relationship.

Use them on dates, over text or as a game: open the page together and take turns drawing cards, or start a room so you both answer from your own phones. Questions stay at light and medium depth, so nothing feels too intense too soon. Share your own answers too.

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    What made you want to go on a second date with me?

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    What's your favorite way to spend a weekend?

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    What are you most excited about in your life right now?

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    What's something people are often surprised to learn about you?

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    Are you more of a planner or go-with-the-flow?

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    What's a place you'd love to show me?

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    What's the best thing that happened to you this year?

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    What's a little thing that instantly makes your day better?

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    What does a healthy relationship look like to you?

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    How do you like to be supported when you've had a bad day?

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    What are your non-negotiables in a relationship?

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    How much alone time do you need to feel recharged?

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    How do you usually handle disagreements?

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    What's something you want to take slowly with us?

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    How do you like to show someone you care?

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    What's something about yourself you wish I asked about more?

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    What's your favorite thing we do together?

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    What's a hobby you'd love to get back into?

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    What was your favorite toy as a kid?

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    What's your dream car or dream trip?

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    What would your perfect birthday look like?

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    What's your favorite memory of us so far?

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    What's a typical day like for you?

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    What's a hidden talent you have?

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    What's your favorite childhood memory?

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    What's the best concert you've ever been to?

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    What's your favorite holiday and why?

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    What's a smell that instantly takes you back?

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    What's a book or movie that changed how you see things?

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    What's your go-to order at a coffee shop?

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    What's a place that feels like home to you?

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    When do you feel most loved by me?

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    What's something you're worried about lately?

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    What's a goal you want to reach this year?

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    What's one thing I do that you'd never want me to stop?

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    Who has influenced you the most in life?

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    How do you like to be cheered up?

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    What's one thing you'd like us to try together?

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    What are three words your friends would use to describe you?

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    What's a value you try to live by?

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    What's something you changed your mind about recently?

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    What's your relationship like with your family?

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    What makes you feel most like yourself?

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    What's something you're working on improving?

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    What do you do for fun when no one's watching?

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    What's the best trip you've ever taken?

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    What's your favorite way to spend a day off?

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    What are you reading, watching or listening to right now?

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    What's a food you could eat every day?

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    What's a job you'd love to try for just one day?

What should I ask a guy in a new relationship?

Ask about what he loves doing, his friends, his family, his goals and what makes him laugh.

How do I get to know him without it feeling like an interview?

Share your own answers and follow up on what he says. Mix fun questions with more personal ones.

When should we talk about deeper topics?

When you both feel comfortable - usually after a few weeks or months.

Can we play this on two phones?

Yes. Start a room and send him the link.