Get to Know You Questions for Couples

Getting to know someone is one of the best parts of a relationship, and it never really ends. These get to know you questions for couples cover favorites, habits, family, travel, work and dreams, from easy warm-ups to questions people rarely get asked. They suit new couples and long-term partners who want to see each other with fresh eyes.

Play at your own pace: take turns on one phone, or start a room and answer side by side on two phones. Use the depth setting to keep things light or go a bit deeper. Mark the answers that surprised you; they are great material for future dates and thoughtful gifts.

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  1. 1

    What made you want to go on a second date with me?

  2. 2

    What's your favorite way to spend a weekend?

  3. 3

    What are you most excited about in your life right now?

  4. 4

    What does a healthy relationship look like to you?

  5. 5

    How do you like to be supported when you've had a bad day?

  6. 6

    What's something people are often surprised to learn about you?

  7. 7

    What are your non-negotiables in a relationship?

  8. 8

    Are you more of a planner or go-with-the-flow?

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    How much alone time do you need to feel recharged?

  10. 10

    What's a place you'd love to show me?

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    How do you usually handle disagreements?

  12. 12

    What's something you want to take slowly with us?

  13. 13

    What's the best thing that happened to you this year?

  14. 14

    How do you like to show someone you care?

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    What's a little thing that instantly makes your day better?

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    What do you do for fun when no one's watching?

  17. 17

    What's the best trip you've ever taken?

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    What's your favorite way to spend a day off?

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    What are you reading, watching or listening to right now?

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    What's a food you could eat every day?

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    What's a job you'd love to try for just one day?

  22. 22

    What's a skill you're secretly proud of?

  23. 23

    Are you a morning person or a night owl?

  24. 24

    What's the most spontaneous thing you've ever done?

  25. 25

    What's your favorite place in your city?

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    What's something you're passionate about?

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    What's the best piece of advice you've ever received?

  28. 28

    Dogs, cats or neither?

  29. 29

    What's a small thing that makes you really happy?

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    What's something on your bucket list?

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    What's the most interesting thing you've learned recently?

  32. 32

    What's a typical day like for you?

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    What's a hidden talent you have?

  34. 34

    What's your favorite childhood memory?

  35. 35

    What are three words your friends would use to describe you?

  36. 36

    What's the best concert you've ever been to?

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    What's a value you try to live by?

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    What's your favorite holiday and why?

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    What's a smell that instantly takes you back?

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    What's something you changed your mind about recently?

What are good get to know you questions for couples?

Questions about favorites, firsts and "why" work well: "What is a smell that takes you back to childhood?" or "What is a skill you would love to learn?"

Is there a get to know you game for couples?

Yes. Press play to get one card at a time, or start a room to play on two phones. Quiz modes add a score if you want competition.

Are these questions okay for a first date?

The level 1 questions are perfect for early dates. Save levels 2 and 3 for when you know each other better.

Can friends use these questions too?

Many of them work for friends as well, but the topics are written with couples in mind.