Questions for Married Couples

After years together it is easy to assume you know everything about each other. These questions for married couples prove there is always more: fun ones about your early dating days, honest ones about how marriage has changed you and forward-looking ones about the next chapter.

Use them on date night, on a weekend away or on any regular evening when you want more than talk about errands. Take turns on one phone or start a room for quiz modes where your partner guesses your answers. Choose light questions for a laugh or deeper levels to really reconnect. Skip anything that does not fit tonight.

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  1. 1

    Who usually wins our arguments, in my opinion?

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    Would I rather host family for the holidays or travel to them?

  3. 3

    Do I think we should get another pet?

  4. 4

    Would I rather renovate our home or move?

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    Which do I enjoy more: cooking together or eating out together?

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    Would I rather have date night weekly or monthly?

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    Do I think we spend enough time together?

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    Would I rather plan our vacations or be surprised?

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    Which chore do I hate more: laundry or dishes?

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    Would I rather have a quiet anniversary or a big celebration?

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    Do I think our wedding day went by too fast?

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    Which do I remember better: our first date or our first kiss?

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    Would I rather renew our vows or take a second honeymoon?

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    What's my favorite thing about our home?

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    What's one thing I'd love us to do more often?

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    What's my favorite family tradition?

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    What's my favorite memory of our first year together?

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    What's my favorite room in our house?

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    Who is most likely to remember our anniversary first?

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    Who is most likely to leave dishes in the sink?

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    Who is most likely to rearrange the furniture?

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    Who is most likely to apologize first after an argument?

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    Who is most likely to forget to take out the trash?

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    Who is most likely to be in charge of the TV remote?

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    Who is most likely to do the grocery shopping?

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    Who is most likely to leave lights on all over the house?

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    Who is most likely to fall asleep first at night?

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    Who is most likely to wake up first in the morning?

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    Who is most likely to be the better cook?

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    Who is most likely to plan date night?

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    Who is most likely to remember family birthdays?

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    Who is most likely to leave clothes on the floor?

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    Who is most likely to hog the bathroom?

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    Who is most likely to spend too much on online shopping?

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    Who is most likely to lose the car keys?

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    Who is most likely to keep the house calm during a crisis?

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    Who is most likely to make the bed?

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    Who is most likely to buy something we don't need on sale?

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    Never have I ever forgotten an anniversary.

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    Never have I ever kept a wedding or event souvenir for years.

What questions should married couples ask each other?

Mix memories ("What did you think of me on our first date?"), appreciation ("What do I do that makes you feel loved?") and future plans ("What do you want our next five years to look like?").

Are there fun questions for married couples?

Yes. Choose level 1 or try Who Is Most Likely To for married couples - it is a great date night game.

How can questions help a marriage?

Regular, curious conversation keeps you close and helps you notice changes in each other. These questions make that easy to start. For serious issues, talk to a professional.

Can we play this with other couples?

Yes. Many questions work well at a couples game night - one phone read out loud is enough.