Questions to Ask Your Partner Over Text

Texting can get repetitive: "what are you doing?", "nothing much". These questions to ask over text give your chats more life, with quick fun prompts for busy days, cute questions for when you miss each other and deeper ones for late-night conversations.

Copy any question straight into your chat, or start a room and send the link so you both answer the same card on your own phones and see the answers side by side. It works across cities and time zones without an app or account. Short, clear questions work best over text, so most here can be answered in one message.

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    Who is most likely to reply with only emojis?

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    Who is most likely to leave the other on read by accident?

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    Who is most likely to send a meme at 2 a.m.?

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    Who is most likely to double text?

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    Who is most likely to send a voice message longer than five minutes?

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    Who is most likely to text in all caps when excited?

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    What's the first thing you want to do when we see each other again?

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    What's something you saw today that made you think of me?

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    If you could teleport here for one hour, what would we do?

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    What's a movie we could watch at the same time this week?

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    What's something from your city you want to show me?

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    What would you put in a care package for me?

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    What's your favorite way to say good night when we're apart?

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    What's the best thing that happened to you today?

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    Send me a photo of something that made you smile today.

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    What are you craving right now?

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    What song are you listening to on repeat?

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    If I were there right now, what would we be doing?

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    What's one word to describe your day?

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    What's something you wish you could tell me in person right now?

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    What's the last thing that made you laugh out loud?

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    Describe your current mood using only emojis.

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    What's one thing you're looking forward to this week?

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    What would you cook me for dinner tonight?

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    What's a random fact you know that I probably don't?

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    What's something about me you thought about today?

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    What's the first thing you'd want to do on our next date?

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    What's your plan for the weekend?

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    What time zone joke never gets old for us?

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    What's your favorite video-call date idea?

What are good questions to ask over text?

Short and specific ones: "What made you smile today?", "What song is stuck in your head?" or "What is one thing you are looking forward to this week?"

How do I keep a text conversation going?

Ask open questions and follow up with "why?" or "tell me more". Mixing light and deeper questions keeps it interesting.

Can we play a game over text?

Yes. Start a room and send the link. You both see each card on your own screen and can answer in real time or whenever you have a minute.

Are these questions okay for a new relationship?

Yes. Most are light and friendly, and the deeper ones are optional.