Questions to Ask Your Partner

Whatever you call each other - partner, husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend - these questions are written to work for every couple. They cover everyday life, favorite memories, the things you appreciate about each other and the bigger questions about what you both want.

Read them together on one phone or start a room to play from two phones, side by side or miles apart. Use the depth setting to match the mood: light for a quick laugh, deeper when you have time to talk. Each question is gender-neutral and easy to adapt, and you can save favorites for later.

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    What's something about yourself you wish I asked about more?

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    What's your favorite thing we do together?

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    When do you feel most loved by me?

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    What's a hobby you'd love to get back into?

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    What's something you're worried about lately?

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    What was your favorite toy as a kid?

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    What's a goal you want to reach this year?

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    What's one thing I do that you'd never want me to stop?

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    What's your dream car or dream trip?

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    Who has influenced you the most in life?

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    What would your perfect birthday look like?

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    What's something you find hard to say out loud?

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    How do you like to be cheered up?

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    What's your favorite memory of us so far?

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    What's one thing you'd like us to try together?

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    What's something that always puts you in a good mood?

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    What's your favorite outfit you own?

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    When do you feel most appreciated by me?

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    What's a place you've always wanted to visit?

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    What's something you're proud of that you don't talk about enough?

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    What's your favorite comfort food?

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    What's one thing I could do to make your week better?

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    What's your favorite song right now?

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    Who is the person you admire most?

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    What's your ideal cozy night in?

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    What's a worry you've been carrying lately?

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    What's a dream you have for your future?

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    What was the best day of your life so far?

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    What's the sweetest thing someone has ever done for you?

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    What's a guilty-pleasure show you love?

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    What's one thing you'd love more help with at home?

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    How do you like to receive feedback?

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    What's a small thing I do that makes your day better?

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    What's a goal you'd like us to work toward together?

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    When do you feel we make the best team?

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    What's the best surprise I've ever given you?

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    What's a fear about our future you'd like to talk through?

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    What's something you'd like to learn about me?

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    What does respect look like to you in a relationship?

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    What's a place that feels like "us"?

What are good questions to ask your partner?

Ask about their day, their dreams and what they need from you: "What is something I could do more of?" or "What is a memory of us you replay a lot?"

Are these questions gender-neutral?

Yes. Every question on this page works for any couple.

Can we use these questions every day?

Yes. One question a day is a simple habit that keeps conversation fresh.

Where can I find questions for a boyfriend or girlfriend specifically?

See our pages with questions to ask your boyfriend and questions to ask your girlfriend, linked below.