Tricky Questions for Couples

Easy quiz questions are fun, but tricky questions are where couples really find out how well they know each other. These questions ask about details people rarely say out loud: the first thing you notice in a room, what you would grab first in a fire, the habit you secretly hate, the food you only pretend to like.

Play as a quiz: one of you answers about yourself, the other guesses. On two phones, start a room so answers stay hidden until the reveal. Tricky questions are meant to be playful, not to catch anyone out, so laugh at the misses and share the story behind the right answer.

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    Do I secretly like your cooking or just say I do?

  2. 2

    Would I rather you surprise me or ask what I want for my birthday?

  3. 3

    Do I think I'm the more patient one?

  4. 4

    Do I think you're a better driver than me?

  5. 5

    Would I rather you pick the movie or me?

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    Do I think I apologize first more often?

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    Do I think you take too long to get ready?

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    Would I admit if I didn't like a gift?

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    What's the one food I'd never eat?

  10. 10

    What's a gift I'd secretly hate?

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    What's something I'm insecure about?

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    Who is most likely to hold a grudge?

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    Who is most likely to pretend to be listening?

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    Who is most likely to bring up an old argument?

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    Who is most likely to say "I'm fine" when they're not?

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    Who is most likely to blame the other for something they did?

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    Who is most likely to be right in an argument?

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    Who is most likely to sulk after losing a game?

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    Who is most likely to steal food from the other's plate?

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    If you could change one thing about me, what would it be — and why are you safe telling me?

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    What's one thing I do that you pretend to like?

  22. 22

    What's the most annoying song I play too often?

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    What's a time you were right but let me win?

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    What's my worst habit, in your honest opinion?

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    What's something you did on a date with me that you secretly regret?

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    Which of my friends would you trust to plan your birthday?

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    What's a gift from me you never actually used?

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    Who takes longer to get ready, honestly?

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    What's the most "me" thing I do that drives you a little crazy?

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    What's something I say that you've never had the heart to correct?

What are tricky questions to ask your partner?

Questions about small details, like "Which of my friends do I text most?" or "What is my go-to order at a coffee shop?"

Are tricky questions meant to trap my partner?

No. They are harder quiz questions for fun. Nobody should feel tested or judged.

Can I ask tricky questions over text?

Yes. Start a room and send the link so your partner answers on their own phone and you compare answers instantly.

What happens if we get a low score?

Nothing bad! Low scores just mean you have more to learn about each other, which is the fun part.